Ladies, I am NOT the typical man you find on here. I am looking for a little more depth than most. Yes, I'd love to find the perfect lover, but if I am not interested in seducing your mind then I probably don't need your body either. That is not to say that instant chemistry is not possible, though... Let's see, a little about me. I have been professionally involved with the Music Business most of my adult life in many different roles. I am, amongst other things, an engineer, currently working my way up the corporate ladder... I love all s of music with a special weakness for Jazz, REAL R&B (think Aretha Franklin, etc.) and all s of rock and pop. I enjoy going out to clubs to either hear live music or to go dancing. I am, all modesty aside, a great cook, like all s of cuisines, expecially spicy ones. If you love garlic, we will get along fine. I am also passionate about wine and have a modest wine cellar in my basement. C up in front of the fireplace and sip some wine with me?? I like ALL s of sex, am VERY oral, love anal play and am into lots of hot sex, kinky if you like it that way. I am also an EXCELLENT photographer. If you are willing to be the subject of private or public photos of all s, we MUST meet and play! My photo is real and current, except that the goatee is history. And NO, that is not a wedding ring on my right hand!! I am divorced 7 years. :-)

My Ideal Person What am I looking for? A woman who is a real equal in all ways: mentally, physically, sexually and spiritually. It wouldn't hurt if we were at similar places in our lives either. I rarely have had the mental and intellectual match I seek paired with the physical attraction and chemistry. And YES, chemistry MUST be there.

I am drug and disease free and seek the same (light recreational drug use is OK with me...).

Special attention payed to a woman with puffy nipples or small breasts. Ask me if you don't know what puffies are!

If you are up for some exploration, once we get to know each other, write me or wink! I am an excellent and considerate lover: multiple orgasms are assured! Would also LOVE to explore Tantric sex with the right woman.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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