I'm 46, African American, I work hard and have no time for lies, drama or bs. I'm not here to find love but at the same time I'm not looking to sleep with everyone on this site either. I'm looking for a friend that needs a break from the normal stress of everyday life. Someone that just needs to release what’s inside to make tomorrow easier to deal with. I have experience with couples and am very comfortable in my own skin. I’m outgoing, relaxed, not afraid to say what I mean or go after what I want. I’m not pushy, rude, disrespectful, arrogant or pretentious. I’m a very real per looking for the same. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.