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TIPS FOR THE DARK SIDE  

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
29519 posts
1/29/2022 8:03 am
TIPS FOR THE DARK SIDE



There are two bloglands; one blogland exists with the glitched old format on the light side, and another blogland exists with the complicated new format on the dark side. Some bloggers have moved to the dark side, and other bloggers remain on the light side. Given that what is posted on the dark side does not appear here on the light side, though what is posted here does show up on the other side, it means that there is no single communal blogland. Things are definitely much quieter on the light side as the dark side sucks bloggers in.

Given that this situation is increasingly untenable and given that the site will move us all over to the dark side whether we like it or not, I am now preparing myself for the dark side. I am looking for help and tips from the dark side bloggers to help me navigate this journey. I am going to ask lots of questions.

Have you moved over to the dark side?
If not moved, do you plan to move over to the dark side or will you call it a day with blogland?
Do dark side bloggers re-post their posts on the light side after posting them on the dark side?
Do light side bloggers check comments on their blog posts on the dark side as well as the light side?


My blogging needs are quite basic. I like to submit a blog post, with a few photos, a few times a week; I like to read and reply to comments on my blog posts; I like to read and comment on the blogs I follow; and I like to read the replies to the comments I post on blogs.

A few days ago, I entered the dark side. It seemed much better than when I last entered. It is still a little busy and it is a little difficult having to remember the names of the blogs I follow as opposed to the usernames of the bloggers. I wonder whether bloggers will remember that my blog is called Sexy Times!

The system of alerts on the dark side telling me that someone has commented on my blog or replied to my comment on their blog seems very confusing and quite arbitrary. The alerts system seems partial and out-of-date.

However, there seems to be no glitches on the dark side. No stolen words, no mangled apostrophes!

What are the upsides of the dark side?
What are the downsides of the dark side?
If already on the dark side, what tips would you give me as I move over?
How do you ensure that you keep track of all new comments on your blog posts and all replies to your comments on the posts of other bloggers?
Is the help function on the dark side helpful?


When I move over to the dark side, I am going to edit the blurb describing my blog ensuring that the description is contained in a few lines as I suspect people will not click to read further details. I also want a private, sticky mailbox post for people to leave messages for me.

Are sticky posts allowed on the dark side?
Can comments on blog posts be made private on the dark side?


Given how blog posts are shown in the dark side, it looks as if the first few lines of a post are critical as they are the ones that people initially see when roam around the dark side. I am going to have get to the point quicker when I move over to the dark side. I am presuming that I do not have to post an obligatory first comment on my blog post for it to register.

Do the bold, underline and italics functions still operate on the dark side?
Is there a choice of colours and fonts on the dark side?
How many photos can be uploaded with a blog post on the dark side?
Is it simple to upload photos with a blog post on the dark side?
Is it easy to reply to comments on a blog post on the dark side?


There are levels and kudos on the dark side. I am not sure what my ascribed level 10 means and I am not sure what kudos are all about. Here on the light side, I have amassed a lot of points. Presumably, my points cannot be taken with me into the dark side. If I cannot take my points over, I am going to trade them in for a lightsaber to protect me against the evil of the dark side!



spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
1/29/2022 8:04 am

For those who have commented on my blog posts on the dark side, my apologies for not replying. I have not got round to checking my blog regularly on the dark side. It’s difficult enough keeping on top of things just on the light side!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/29/2022 9:32 am

That other place is currently usable but confusing and glitchy too. Darth Cornu doesn't listen to the requests of those who post "over there". Hence little is actual functional changes. The "Authority" whats it to be like FarceBook and it is - it sucks.

That said, since it will be forced upon us at some point I will likely be there but not as much as I am in the light.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
1/29/2022 9:32 am

following this post. Thanks spunky. Also ask about the sharing of info/posts to other social media sites....earlier there was a talk of a share button.

If we cant take our points.....i wont be there. Ive spent more than a decade amassing points.

Like you...i find blogs by pictures or user names....not blog titles. The other thing i noticed is that there are no ages associated with blog posters. Im not interested in reading a 20 something year olds blog. Ive checked in over there and im following a few but i cant find my regulars. Thanks for posting your blog name~~


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
1/29/2022 9:33 am

ohhhhh.....and i also cant find " where im quoted " over there. ugh ~


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
1/29/2022 9:50 am

"Are sticky posts allowed on the dark side?
Can comments on blog posts be made private on the dark side?"
I'm curious about both of those and would love an answer. I know at one point, our "private mailboxes" weren't so private on the dark side. Nothing quite like finding out someone wanted to air all of our private conversations...and possibly our dirty laundry. Thanks Darth Cornu!

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
1/29/2022 10:24 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    ohhhhh.....and i also cant find " where im quoted " over there. ugh ~
This one's easy. Look on your little personalized dashboard that should pop up on the left hand side - the one that shows number of alerts, number of blog posts that you have, etc. On the bottom is "Comment Replies" and that is the equivalent to "Where I'm Quoted".


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
1/29/2022 10:37 am

I started posting over there this week. My plan is to do posts there, taking advantage of no word disappearances or AAAA's; and on this side just do a short post giving people a heads up that I have a new post in beta (yes, I'm trying to do my part to sorta force people to at least go check it out).

I think the upsides are 1) no glitches 2) I'm doing more browsing of blogs that I don't follow (on either the New or Trending lists), because the format of a listing with the first few lines of the post gives me an idea of whether I'm going to want to click and read the whole thing. 3) posts and comments appear pretty much immediately, and comment replies are neatly arranged into threads, so it's much easier to have a 'conversation' in the blog comments.

Downsides? 1) Alerts aren't really working yet. I've gotten in the habit of just checking my feed to to see if there are new posts from bloggers who I follow. 2) I wouldn't count on having a private message post that's truly private; I'm still seeing reports of people being able to see other people's comments. 3) A few of us have been having debates with Andrew about the handling of pictures.

My personal philosophy here is that I'm willing to do a little low-key exhibitionism for fun, but I'm pretty happy with it only being seen by people who follow my blog, and the occasional stray. With the new feed showing thumbnail photos, that is a little more visibility than I want. In addition, yesterday Andrew previewed what the site's home page will look like. There will be a new section on the right hand side for Community, and there will be a revolving display of trending blog posts - again with a good sized picture preview.

All of this is a pretty strong disincentive for me to post pictures of myself in my blog posts.

Other bloggers who aren't worried about keeping a low profile don't like the previews because they feel that they spoil any "story" they might be trying to tell in their post as the reader scrolls down and pictures are revealed.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
1/29/2022 11:04 am

Great questions and here are my responses to them..

Have you moved over to the dark side? Yes

If not moved, do you plan to mover over to the dark side or will you call it a day with blogland? Do we really have a choice..

Do the dark side bloggers re-post their posts on the light side after posting them on the dark side? I hear there is no issues with that.

Do the light side bloggers check comments on their blog posts on the dark side as well as the light side? I do on both sides

What are the upsides of the dark side? Yes I hear we don't have to fix our posts

What are the downsides of the dark side? For me not being able to use my bling or colors for my blogs.

If already on the dark side, what tips would you give me as I move over? I don't have any tips as I don't care for that place. Only moved because I was asked to and really we don't have a choice other than to move there.

How do you ensure that you keep track of all new comments on your blog posts and all replies to your comments on the posts of other bloggers? I always respond to the comments I get from others on my blogs.

Is the help function on the dark side helpful? WHAT HELP..

Are sticky posts allowed on the dark side? Yes they are

Can comments on blog posts be made private on the dark side? That I don't know and still need to find out about.

Do the bold, underline and italics functions still operate on the dark side? I haven't tried to use that yet.

Is there a choice of colours and fonts on the dark side? No clue

How many photos can be uploaded with a blog post on the dark side? I believe it's still ten pictures for blogs.

Is it simple to upload photos with a blog post on the dark side? Yes it's pretty easy.

Is it easy to reply to comments on a blog post on the dark side? That is a bit tricky to
do as you have to click on the first paragraph of a persons blog and then it will take you to comments. Or that's what I have had to do so far.

I hope you enjoy a sexy fun filled weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
1/29/2022 11:44 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    This one's easy. Look on your little personalized dashboard that should pop up on the left hand side - the one that shows number of alerts, number of blog posts that you have, etc. On the bottom is "Comment Replies" and that is the equivalent to "Where I'm Quoted".
Thanks Smarty!!! i found it....and saw my interactions. Thanks much !!


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
1/29/2022 1:51 pm

I usually check out both sides .


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
1/29/2022 3:15 pm

Just to be clear — there are NO issues whatsoever, with that NEW private mail box. The issues are related to the uploading of comments from THIS side of the fence.

When you finally close the door on THIS side of your private Mail Box, ALL your messages on that BETA site will be impossible to read by anyone except you and the person with whom you're talking with.

Go into that New Mail Box
Delete all the messages
Done

That's it. Close this mail box down or be aware — any messages in your old mail box will be uploaded to your NEW mail box. Only YOUR comments are visible.

Sounds confusing? Not really. That new mail box works great. And much easier and more fun than THIS clunker. 😎❗❗


scoupe42 60M

1/29/2022 5:49 pm

I guess, I been out of commission for a while, not sure what happening or going on on the site.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
1/30/2022 6:22 am

It seems you've already received tons of responses to your questions, so I'll not replicate that effort here.

Long story short: I am still posting on the light side but do monitor the dark side in anticipation of being forced over there. (I remember that happening BRIEFLY once already!!) Until they fix all the issues with photo positioning and associated line spacing around photos, I don't really think I'll be moving voluntarily. Best I can tell this is really about making the blogs phone friendly, and offers nothing to the rest of us.

Sometimes Little Things Are Enough
Artificial Intelligence is Getting WAY More Smart
Legs, on HNW
[post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets – Anything you write here is just between us


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
1/30/2022 7:37 am

No real interest in the Dark side. They can figure it out and then I will decide. I am quite ticked that they would do something like this

Please cum visit my blog,,,,,,,,,,,,pal334



dangbitches 58F  
478 posts
1/30/2022 6:14 pm

What? I'm missing something? Dark? Light? Oh my

Have fun here! and be NICE!
DB


TheDeepInside 48M
170 posts
1/30/2022 9:01 pm

- Excellent info; if you don't mind, I intend to save this for future reading if I need a quick access guide available.

M~


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 5:56 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    That other place is currently usable but confusing and glitchy too. Darth Cornu doesn't listen to the requests of those who post "over there". Hence little is actual functional changes. The "Authority" whats it to be like FarceBook and it is - it sucks.

    That said, since it will be forced upon us at some point I will likely be there but not as much as I am in the light.
The dark side has improved since it was first foisted on us but there's still lots of room for improvement.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 5:59 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    following this post. Thanks spunky. Also ask about the sharing of info/posts to other social media sites....earlier there was a talk of a share button.

    If we cant take our points.....i wont be there. Ive spent more than a decade amassing points.

    Like you...i find blogs by pictures or user names....not blog titles. The other thing i noticed is that there are no ages associated with blog posters. Im not interested in reading a 20 something year olds blog. Ive checked in over there and im following a few but i cant find my regulars. Thanks for posting your blog name~~
The site did have plans to open up blogland to non-site members but I don't know whether it still has these plans, because doing this would raise some privacy isses.
I believe we can take our points when the site moves over to the dark side.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 6:00 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    ohhhhh.....and i also cant find " where im quoted " over there. ugh ~
Where you are quoted should be found by clicking your alerts, though the alerts are a bit of a jumble at the moment.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 6:02 am

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    "Are sticky posts allowed on the dark side?
    Can comments on blog posts be made private on the dark side?"
    I'm curious about both of those and would love an answer. I know at one point, our "private mailboxes" weren't so private on the dark side. Nothing quite like finding out someone wanted to air all of our private conversations...and possibly our dirty laundry. Thanks Darth Cornu!
I believe that sticky posts are allowed and that private mailboxes are private on the dark side.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 7:54 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I started posting over there this week. My plan is to do posts there, taking advantage of no word disappearances or AAAA's; and on this side just do a short post giving people a heads up that I have a new post in beta (yes, I'm trying to do my part to sorta force people to at least go check it out).

    I think the upsides are 1) no glitches 2) I'm doing more browsing of blogs that I don't follow (on either the New or Trending lists), because the format of a listing with the first few lines of the post gives me an idea of whether I'm going to want to click and read the whole thing. 3) posts and comments appear pretty much immediately, and comment replies are neatly arranged into threads, so it's much easier to have a 'conversation' in the blog comments.

    Downsides? 1) Alerts aren't really working yet. I've gotten in the habit of just checking my feed to to see if there are new posts from bloggers who I follow. 2) I wouldn't count on having a private message post that's truly private; I'm still seeing reports of people being able to see other people's comments. 3) A few of us have been having debates with Andrew about the handling of pictures.

    My personal philosophy here is that I'm willing to do a little low-key exhibitionism for fun, but I'm pretty happy with it only being seen by people who follow my blog, and the occasional stray. With the new feed showing thumbnail photos, that is a little more visibility than I want. In addition, yesterday Andrew previewed what the site's home page will look like. There will be a new section on the right hand side for Community, and there will be a revolving display of trending blog posts - again with a good sized picture preview.

    All of this is a pretty strong disincentive for me to post pictures of myself in my blog posts.

    Other bloggers who aren't worried about keeping a low profile don't like the previews because they feel that they spoil any "story" they might be trying to tell in their post as the reader scrolls down and pictures are revealed.
Having no glitches is a big upside for the dark side, Also I quite like how blog posts are laid out. I'm warming to crossing over to the dark side!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 7:56 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Great questions and here are my responses to them..

    Have you moved over to the dark side? Yes

    If not moved, do you plan to mover over to the dark side or will you call it a day with blogland? Do we really have a choice..

    Do the dark side bloggers re-post their posts on the light side after posting them on the dark side? I hear there is no issues with that.

    Do the light side bloggers check comments on their blog posts on the dark side as well as the light side? I do on both sides

    What are the upsides of the dark side? Yes I hear we don't have to fix our posts

    What are the downsides of the dark side? For me not being able to use my bling or colors for my blogs.

    If already on the dark side, what tips would you give me as I move over? I don't have any tips as I don't care for that place. Only moved because I was asked to and really we don't have a choice other than to move there.

    How do you ensure that you keep track of all new comments on your blog posts and all replies to your comments on the posts of other bloggers? I always respond to the comments I get from others on my blogs.

    Is the help function on the dark side helpful? WHAT HELP..

    Are sticky posts allowed on the dark side? Yes they are

    Can comments on blog posts be made private on the dark side? That I don't know and still need to find out about.

    Do the bold, underline and italics functions still operate on the dark side? I haven't tried to use that yet.

    Is there a choice of colours and fonts on the dark side? No clue

    How many photos can be uploaded with a blog post on the dark side? I believe it's still ten pictures for blogs.

    Is it simple to upload photos with a blog post on the dark side? Yes it's pretty easy.

    Is it easy to reply to comments on a blog post on the dark side? That is a bit tricky to
    do as you have to click on the first paragraph of a persons blog and then it will take you to comments. Or that's what I have had to do so far.

    I hope you enjoy a sexy fun filled weekend..
Many thanks for answering many of my queries. It's much appreciated.
It's a shame about the 49ers buut there's always next season!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 7:58 am

    Quoting  :

Many thanks for your answers to my queries. Your answers are really helpful in getting me to move over to the dark side soon. Hopefully the alerts will work better.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 7:59 am

It must be a pain checking both sides but that's the only way to keep abreast of everything in blogland.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 8:00 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Just to be clear — there are NO issues whatsoever, with that NEW private mail box. The issues are related to the uploading of comments from THIS side of the fence.

    When you finally close the door on THIS side of your private Mail Box, ALL your messages on that BETA site will be impossible to read by anyone except you and the person with whom you're talking with.

    Go into that New Mail Box
    Delete all the messages
    Done

    That's it. Close this mail box down or be aware — any messages in your old mail box will be uploaded to your NEW mail box. Only YOUR comments are visible.

    Sounds confusing? Not really. That new mail box works great. And much easier and more fun than THIS clunker. 😎❗❗
I'm getting more used to the dark side and it has certainly improved since first rolled out.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 8:01 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    I guess, I been out of commission for a while, not sure what happening or going on on the site.
At the moment there's two formats to blogland - this one and the new one. The site will move us all over to the new format soon.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 8:03 am

    Quoting  :

I am warming to the dark side. From being one who was going to leave once thje dark side was foisted on us without warning many months ago, I'm now going to give it a good go.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 8:24 am

    Quoting CleavageFan4U:
    It seems you've already received tons of responses to your questions, so I'll not replicate that effort here.

    Long story short: I am still posting on the light side but do monitor the dark side in anticipation of being forced over there. (I remember that happening BRIEFLY once already!!) Until they fix all the issues with photo positioning and associated line spacing around photos, I don't really think I'll be moving voluntarily. Best I can tell this is really about making the blogs phone friendly, and offers nothing to the rest of us.

    Sometimes Little Things Are Enough
    Artificial Intelligence is Getting WAY More Smart
    Legs, on HNW
    [post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets – Anything you write here is just between us
I'm a PC user so the old format, without its glitches, works best for me. But I guess I must move with the times.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 8:24 am

    Quoting pal334:
    No real interest in the Dark side. They can figure it out and then I will decide. I am quite ticked that they would do something like this
The dark side has got better but it's still far from perfect.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 8:26 am

    Quoting  :

That's a shame that you'll stop blogging once the dark side takes over. I think I'll give the dark side a go and see how it goes.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 8:27 am

    Quoting dangbitches:
    What? I'm missing something? Dark? Light? Oh my
Star Wars has come to blogland!
Thanks for stopping by.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/1/2022 8:28 am

    Quoting TheDeepInside:
    - Excellent info; if you don't mind, I intend to save this for future reading if I need a quick access guide available.

    M~
Of course I don't mind you saving this post. I'm pleased you found it helpful.
Thanks for stopping by.


Sexisnatural01 49M
38 posts
2/19/2022 7:45 pm

Interesting post.


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/20/2022 1:58 am

I'm pleased you liked the post. The switch to the Dark Side is now very imminent.
Thanks for stopping by.


Miner1980Brown1 62F
113 posts
2/22/2022 8:43 pm

They removed a lot of my writings a while ago. I have plenty on my plate as it is in my Realm of Reality, therefore, I doubt I will miss either side of bloglandia. Y'all have a wonderful journey!


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/23/2022 1:42 am

    Quoting Miner1980Brown1:
    They removed a lot of my writings a while ago. I have plenty on my plate as it is in my Realm of Reality, therefore, I doubt I will miss either side of bloglandia. Y'all have a wonderful journey!
I need to get real sometimes!
Thanks for stopping by and wishing you all the best.


JN63JPN 61F  
27439 posts
2/24/2022 3:05 am

Right now, I post on the light side and reply to comments over at the dark. I haven't really tried to play around with the formatting over at the dark side since I'm so used to the formatting on the light.

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
2/24/2022 3:39 am

    Quoting JN63JPN:
    Right now, I post on the light side and reply to comments over at the dark. I haven't really tried to play around with the formatting over at the dark side since I'm so used to the formatting on the light.
I've now moved over to posting on the Dark Side. Posts appear quicker, there are no glitches (eg missing images, stolen words, mangled apostrophers), and comments/replies appear immediately. However, I still comment on the Light Side if someone posts here, as Dark Side comments don't show up here.


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