This is our first try at swinging and are hoping a patient couple, single man, or woman could "help" us. She is married. Lives in Auburn, and has been sexually bored from lack of sex. He Is married, Lives in Santa Rosa, and also has been lacking in sex as his wife is no longer interested. Over the past two years we have been chatting quite often, one thing led to another, and we are now "secret lovers" whenever we are able to get together, which is about 3 times a year, hopefully more this coming year. We are into nasty chat, light bondage, Dom/ Sub with him being more sub. dildo play spanking,food play, cock and ball restraint, Golden showers, rimming, and are willing and open to learn more! also into wild fantasys, anything dirty and diff! Tam is interested in seeing me with a couple, or single male when her and I are not able to get together.

My Ideal Person Men, Women or Couples (man and woman) for 1-on-1 sex, Discreet Relationship, Erotic Chat or Email, Exhibitionism/Voyeurism, Group sex (3 or more!), Misc. Fetishes or Other "Alternative" Activities