Yes, I am a real, never married, no (I've kept track of that), successful and generous professional that loves to treat a woman lavishly. I'm not looking for a one-night stand or a "serious" relationship either. Anonymous sex just doesn't thrill me as much as the intensity that goes along with wanting to bring pleasure to a friend. Some would say friends with benefits would describe my desires best, but I think that phrase is too casually used. If I eventually find "Ms. Right" then we'll see what happens. Till then I think the world would be a much better place if we all just "love the one you're with" Nothing pleases me more than giving all my attention to the woman at my side. My second passion is live music, almost all kinds, but especially jam bands. (What to do now without Gerry?) Add in good food, great wine or fabulous scotch, a hotel room with a candle lit hot tub... You get the idea. Romance and chivalry are not dead here. I ride a bicycle every day that weather and my schedule will allow, I go camping in a tent and I'm told that I am a great cook. I love to laugh, like the theater, both silver screen and the stage. I enjoy traveling anywhere and everywhere - from a quick trip to Minnesota or Florida to a few weeks in China (been there once). I recently taught at two local colleges and currently own a technology/security consulting company that has me all around Chicagoland and occasionally off to strange and exotic places. Consequently, my work hours can be a little strange but also somewhat flexible. I am disease free. Yes, I've been tested.

My Ideal Person You should be adventurous and have a passion for sharing - being pleasured and pleasing your partner. You enjoy having sex, sometimes several times a day or for long sessions. You're a woman that is not afraid to tell me what she wants, in and out of the bedroom (I cannot read minds) but also a lady that appreciates when I want to take control. You should like to pet the sweaty stuff more that sweating the petty stuff and appreciate a guy with the same attitude. I can't fully describe what I'm looking for in a woman, it just depends upon the individual. Do you like to travel? Do you enjoy great wine or an old scotch? Do you think that a hard man is good to find? Do bad puns and worse pickup lines make you smile? Perhaps you can also join me in my travels and we can explore each other.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
The Dead, Phish, String Cheese, Widespread Panic, Hawkwind, many
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What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Aren't we all celebrities?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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