We are the kind of friends who consider charging sex toys to be essential to a successful game night with the neighbors. We are a hot, happy, healthy, perpetually horny, ENM, playfully poly-secure couple; the West Seattle, professional, couple-next-door; likely to bump our upside down pineapple filled cart into yours at Metro Market. Like many, we are slightly overly-educated, highly responsible, and have far-too-engaging professional lives. We are also deeply in love, devoted libertines; and hopeless compersion junkies whose domestic bliss comes with social sexuality, house parties, lifestyle travel, moresomes, gangbangs, handcuffs (BDSM light), hot-wifery, spit-roasts, and all manner of consensual adult goodness. Our encyclopedia of " Yes, please"s is vast compared to our post-it note of the standard icky "No, thank you"s. We can easily host (bonus: hot tub!). Love to meet at Sapphire , Privata, or house party for some low-stakes, getting to know each other. We absolutely like to meet and fuck; but, more absolutely, don't bring the vagina drying, cock deflating pressure of expectations to meeting. We play with select co-ed groups, guys (solo and plural), couples, and women; She plays solo with any combination of known friends; He plays with select guys who are potential threesome or moresome partners (vibe check and a naughty workout?) . She is a surprisingly recent and endearingly zealous fan of women. Our hydraulics are halted by pushy, sketchy, hygiene-impaired, and aggressive. We are into Bi or straight and respect boundaries. In MMF, we are more Stag & Vixen; but we get the dry heaves from degradation cuck/dom stuff. We like happy, friendly, fun kink. We love growing a circle of socially sexual friends. If you are a guy; he must meet you first. She will voice verify that we are a couple and not catfish. We test, never miss a dose of PrEP, and overachieve at vax'ing.

My Ideal Person Ideal is not important. We aren't seeking new soulmates or trophies. We ❤️ fellow compersion junkies.

Couples: Straight, Bi , or Gay. We enjoy both incidental and (moreso) deliberate contact. She is Bi and he is situationally, sexually fluid (Heteroromantic; sexually Bi or Bi for now ...)

Solo Guys
We want to meet and fuck if....

You understand that we must screen solo guys to ensure that you have read our profile and a mutually good fit. So, below is a secret word to put in the title of your first message to us. If the word is not there, we have to pass your message; so put it in the title; so we can get things going.

You can meet in the evenings or on weekends. We appreciate that scheduling can be a challenge if you are not in an open relationship; but we cannot solve that one for you. Your relationship is yours; we would never compromise your relationships or privacy.

You get that this is not porn.

We are not at all interested in guys that can't meet, pen pals; endless emails, sexting; endless pic exchanges (until we meet, we tend to be discreet and stick with the pics on our profile)

For MMF, we prefer Bi, flexible, curious, fluid...;but straight is cool as long as you don't embrace homophobia.

Be kind and have manners; because knowing how to act is both essential and hot.

It is always her choice; he knows what she likes. He and you must meet first for safety, chemistry, and vibe. She will voice verify that we are a couple; before meeting.

The secret word is: Ginger. Prove you read this far by putting it in the title of your first message to us

Be prepared; test, have your results. It is easy using Nurx App or Planned Parenthood or ... it is easy and a sign that you are real. It will help you get laid.

Very nice bonus if you are a guy who is prepared; on PrEP and have recent negative tests.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, Gloryhole, Femdom Guy/Guy

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Manners

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