I'm not much interested in quick sex with strangers, but I'd love to have a friend (or friends) with whom there can be some physical intimacy. I can do relaxed and casual, but strongly prefer hanging out and getting to know one another some ... and creating an ongoing connection that involves some level of friendship. Not just stranger sex. I love exchanging massage, and have real massage skills and a massage table. Massage could become "erotic" -- or not. Depending on how we both feel.