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Posted:Apr 14, 2012 9:19 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2012 6:56 pm
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Haven't posted much this week. Been a long one at work.
This is the time for spring testing at our school. So mornings have been me being the babysitter for the 3-5th grade students who either can't test with the rest of the class and those that arrive late. Afternoons have been me being a test monitor. Plus mini me is testing at her school as well.
Down side is our circulation numbers are down because we aren't having classes. But...we opened up the afternoon up Thurs & Fri and that helped. Plus sent an email out to the teachers telling them we would pull them a "bucket" of books if they wanted...that increased numbers a little.
Mini me and I did go have dinner Thurs with my friend CJ. I had left my laptop with him because it was giving me issues, so picked it up and invited CJ to have dinner with us. Mini me thought he was a hoot.
Last night...went on another first date....but that is another blog. Lol....
Just a little teaser pic!
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Emails....to laugh or not to laugh...
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Posted:Apr 14, 2012 8:56 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2012 4:30 am
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Ok, so most of us on here can say we get a strange email now and then. And some can say it is an everyday occurrence!
I received two emails within a 12 hour period that were on opposite ends of the spectrum this week. One made me laugh...the other made me giggle.
The first one read like this......
Hi 80sbaby71. My name is "Sweet man" (that is what I will call him) and I am 43 years old and live in Oklahoma City. I know this is kind of sudden and you don't know me from Adam etc. etc. but I was wondering if you would like to go to the Foreigner concert at the Lucky Star Casino with me? Its this Friday and the doors open at 7:00 PM and the concert starts at 8:00 PM.
So my life has been extremely busy with work lately. I was on a six week trip for work recently in Ft. Lauderdale, FL. I saw a Foreigner concert on TV at the hotel and I was blown away by how good they were. I never really appreciated them in the 80s. I like their new singer much better than the old one. When I got home I heard that they were going to be in town and I really want to go see them but don't have anyone to go with. I've been reading your blog and know that you grew up in the 80s like I did. You seem to love the 80s since your username is 80sbaby71 and your favorite music (according to your profile) is 80s hair bands. You seem like you'd be good company so I thought it would be a natural fit. Foreigner isn't quite a hair band although the new lead singer might qualify for hair band status.
Anyway, if you'd like to go I'd love to take you. If you would like to chat with me or something before Friday to make sure you feel comfortable with me I'd love to do that. I'm a very nice person and I promise you that I will treat you with great respect. I'm attaching a picture. That picture was taken a few months ago. I'm a little heavier now and my hair is a bit different. I think I look better in person than in that picture. I hope to hear from you. Take care.
How sweet is that?
Then of course there was the second one I received....
Hi my name is "Fred" (this is the name I will give him) I'm not gay but love wearing panty hose if you can handle that get back with me
Ok so sorry if that offends anyone but it made me laugh my ass off~
Anymore I don't take alot of the emails seriously. I don't. They are stupid, childish and for the most part obscenely disgusting! But that is the way life goes....and I get my giggles!
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Happy Easter
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Posted:Apr 7, 2012 6:59 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2012 4:27 am
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To all my friends, fellow bloggers, and everyone out there.....
I hope you have a very blessed Easter. Mine will be spent with my sweet Mini me...love and all!
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And you want a 2nd date?
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Posted:Apr 7, 2012 6:53 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2012 4:29 am
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This wasn't the best date. Lol.... I mean seriously! Men (some not all) can be total turds. 
I had a date today. Casual, no biggie. This man and I have been talking on a vanilla site for a little while. Texts...and he finally asked me to a movie. So we made plans to meet at a local movie theatre. He said casual...good. So I put on a pair of denim capris, a decent shirt and my little ballet slippers. Pulled the hair up and put some make-up on. He said he'd be wearing jeans and a tee shirt.
Meet at the theatre...had already decided earlier in the day what movie. Get inside, he buys the tickets (I was planning on buying my own) then stops to get a soda. We settle into the theatre and make chit chat while waiting.
About a third/fourth of the way into the movie his arm goes from the arm rest to the back of the seat and onto my shoulders. No biggie. Then he starts blowing into my ear....ok, a little annoying. Then he kisses me. Ok.....
Well then he starts to cop a feel or two.... Even goes as far as trying to open my legs!
I told him politely that he needed to rein it in.... He kept trying to kiss me. And his hand kept trying to brush low on my shoulder.
After the movie he was like "Think I can get a second date?" Uh? Really? I mean he was a nice guy. But now I understand what he meant by he was a little out of practice in the dating game with only two dates last year! He had also mentioned that he hasn't had sex in 5 years! Ok...
So, we said our good-byes in the parking lot. Like I said nice guy...but DAMN!
So, sitting at home tonight. Little lonely. I guess I have gotten spoiled in the last few months....snuggle partner. Maybe I should just stick with what I have. Cuz obviously when I go out on dates it is never a good thing.
And for that fact...I don't need someone to take me out on a date. Hell fix me dinner, snuggle in with a movie. Just talk to me. I really enjoy sex....but I enjoy talking to someone as well. I think I recently proved that. I was in the presence of a male friend... and I had a hot hard cock in my presence...and I kept my clothes on! He didn't...but I did. And you know what? It isn't all about sex with me...I enjoyed giving him pleasure.
Ok...well good evening to all and to all a pleasant one! Love, hugs and big wet kisses from me...the Baby!
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BONUS!!!!
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Posted:Apr 4, 2012 8:21 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2012 7:45 am
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So here is a BONUS half-nekkid pic.
I like that word....BONUS! Heard that earlier...but it was used in a whole nother context! lol 
Had dinner (double date, kinda) with some friends tonight. And we were talking about me needing a "sexy" pic. I said "Is there a Christie's or Priscilla/Patricia's around here...bend over a couch" Now what I meant to say was ME bend over a couch...but it came as me bend someone over...So my "date" went to a falsetto voice and said "BONUS".
Did bring mini me a treat home...a cupcake...she didn't care for the icing...I had to lick it off.  So with a mouthful of icing she is shoving it back at me to get the rest off...and I said "I can't swallow all of it that quick...." She about laid an egg laughing so hard...sad thing is she got the dirty side of it and it took me a second to figure out why she was laughing so hard...this is just SO wrong!!!!
Here is my BONUS pic...and the one that I liked the best! Don't know why but I think it is pretty hot!!!
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Half-Nekkid....
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Posted:Apr 4, 2012 8:14 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2012 7:49 am
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Okay...so I had a hard time deciding on what to post for my half-nekkid Wednesday pic....
So after mcuh deliberation..and some advice from a friend...this is what I am posting...
Which I don't personally like...but was told this one looked good because of the length angle...
Wanna guess where this was taken? Who's shirt that is? Who's jeans those are? When was this taken? These and other burning questions.....
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On a serious note...
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Posted:Apr 4, 2012 3:31 pm
Last Updated:Apr 5, 2012 3:57 am
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Like I posted the other day...lots on my mind.
Things seem to come in threes in my life. Deaths always come in threes...bad things usually do. And it seems like the dreaded threes have hit again.
My great aunt (she kinda raised me on occasion, and calls me her when it is convenient) let me know a couple of months ago that they had found a lump in her breast. Did surgery, took lymph nodes...thought it was all good. Now they aren't so sure... So she is now going to undergo Chemo. She is in fairly good spirits.
A very good friend (former lover) that I am very close to even though we've only seen each other once in the last 8 months...had throat cancer. Went through treatment....looked good! It is back. With a vengeance....and spreading. And this hurts me, because I love him. He is my friend...
And last night...I found out my niece, who is one month older than my oldest, at age 21 is going to have a radical hysterectomy next month due to now having stage 2 cervical cancer. Now the upside, if there is one, is that she has a who will be 5 this year and a who just turned 1.
So those are a few things on my mind....
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Naughty Baby!
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Posted:Apr 4, 2012 3:14 pm
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2012 4:43 pm
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Ever just feel the need to be naughty? Do something out of the ordinary for you?
I did! I did something naughty today at work....remember I work in an elementary school library?
All alone today...my boss had a dr appt. So I was covering her classes. Hey, it's extra pay! Plus for the most part I like to do it...gives me a chance to step out from behind the circulation desk to do more than shelve books, make copies, laminate or do lunch/recess duty!!!!
Anyway...I chose the wrong panties to wear it seems. They kept creeping....and by 2p it was driving me crazy! Last class left. I went to the restroom and OFF they came!
So for the next hour and a half...I wasn't wearing any panties under my dress!
I was behind the desk checking in books, in the workroom making copies...so nobody knew...and it was a long denim dress with a slip...so no harm...but it just made me feel naughty!!!!
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Still around
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Posted:Apr 3, 2012 6:21 pm
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2012 8:24 pm
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I am still around...just have alot weighing on my mind.
At the point of stopping asking peoples opinions...because in the long run I am always told I am wrong...
So thinking.....and wondering.....and hurting.
Lot going on. School, injury yesterday....so hurting physically. Sometimes I get tired of being the friend that listens to her guy friends talk about their girl problems....hello....I am a woman too!
Still around...just thinking. I'll be back...just gotta get my thoughts in order.
Love to all....
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My date critic!
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Posted:Mar 31, 2012 7:32 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:48 pm
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Mini me is very critical of the men I have dated. Not all, only the ones that she has met. Which the only ones she has met are the ones that I have actually gotten into a relationship with (for the most part).
So driving home the other day she started discussing my choice in men. And she was critical. Told me which ones that she liked and which ones she didn't....and why!
There are two men that she really liked. And would love to see me with. The jock...who I have to say will always hold a spot in my heart. He never wanted a relationship...I was always his FWB. He recently decided he wanted a relationship...just not with me. The other was my last relationship...she really liked him. Me too. He broke it off because he had some personal issues going on in his life...and now he is going to be a father in a couple of months.
Others she wasn't so fond of. They were pushy, stalkers, creepers, gave her that yucky feeling etc. Some of them gave me that feeling as well. That is probably why I didn't get into a relationship or it didn't last long.
She wants me happy. But she doesn't want to see me get hurt. She has been there for me. She knows that when I go into something I go in full force...all or nothing...give it my all...my heart.
Recently, last week, mini & I had spent the afternoon with friends then had dinner with them as well. After dinner we were standing outside talking, my friend knew I had been "seeing" someone lately. No, not in a relationship.. a friendship with added benefits I guess you could call it. Anyway, we were close by his place, and when he came up in the conversation mini kinda giggled. My friend asked why I didn't stop by and say hi...she would keep mini for a bit. I passed, not because I didn't want to, but because I don't want to give mini the wrong impression. Mini wants to see me happy. And I have to say I have been happier. Maybe because my sexual tension hasn't been so high strung. But my friend asked mini if she wanted me happy..."Of course...I just don't want her hurt!"
When it comes to love, I am unlucky. I know what I want. And guys seem to only want the physical with me...not the emotional, love, etc. But for now I am happy smiling, enjoying the moment, and just being me. Where life takes me is in God's hands.
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All I need...
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Posted:Mar 28, 2012 6:44 pm
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2012 9:51 pm
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Today was one of those days. Not necessarily a bad day...but one of those days that has me just worn out.
Our school was chosen to do a "focus walk". Which is where all the local elem principals all converge on our school and basically put us under scrutiny. So, our principal decided to have my boss hold all of the library classes in the classrooms. And leave the library open for to come check out books all the while the whole group of principals are meeting right there in my library!
So we were all told to dress up a little more than usual. So I wore one of my spring/summer dresses (did I happen to mention that is in the 80s here lately? or that they still have the heat on in the school?). And I wore heels! OMG! My feet hate me this evening!
Anyway it went ok. I got to kinda evesdrop! Not all bad critism. Pretty good for the most part.
Anyway, head home. No mini me til later because she is at Confirmation with her dad. Talked to one friend on messenger before my computer decided to freeze. So shower time... Talked to my friend CJ about another computer issue. Then had a little "me" time...REALLY needed to have a release. Took the edge off.
Not sure why, but kinda bummed. You know that feeling when you just want to curl up with someone and talk? Just have someone listen? Hold you? Just need someone? Yeah...that is tonight...
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Stronger...sometimes
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Posted:Mar 28, 2012 6:32 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 1:56 pm
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This song kinda hits home. I've had to go through some deep crap in the last couple of years, and whether good or bad it has made me stronger none the less.
Lucky for me, I have a great couple of friends who have been there for me. And along the way...made a couple more.
"What Doesn't Kill You (Stronger)"
by Kelly Clarkson
You know the bed feels warmer
Sleeping here alone
You know I dream in color
And do the things I want
You think you got the best of me
Think you've had the last laugh
Bet you think that everything good is gone
Think you left me broken down
Think that I'd come running back
Baby you don't know me, cause you're dead wrong
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone
What doesn't kill you makes a fighter
Footsteps even lighter
Doesn't mean I'm over cause you're gone
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger
Just me, myself and I
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone
You heard that I was starting over with someone new
They told you I was moving on, over you
You didn't think that I'd come back
I'd come back swinging
You try to break me, but you see
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone
What doesn't kill you makes a fighter
Footsteps even lighter
Doesn't mean I'm over cause you're gone
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger
Just me, myself and I
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone
Thanks to you I got a new thing started
Thanks to you I'm not the broken-hearted
Thanks to you I'm finally thinking about me
You know in the end the day you left was just my beginning
In the end...
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone
What doesn't kill you makes a fighter
Footsteps even lighter
Doesn't mean I'm over cause you're gone
[2x]
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, stronger
Just me, myself and I
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
Stand a little taller
Doesn't mean I'm lonely when I'm alone
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Monday, Monday
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Posted:Mar 26, 2012 10:00 pm
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2012 4:20 am
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So today was my first day back to work after my two week spring break. Not quite as bad as I thought.
Before spring break, it seemed that during the work week I could not sleep the whole night straight through. During spring break I slept great. Sunday night mini & I went to bed at 10pm. And I awoke at.....11:17p....and again at 3:32a!!! What's up with that?!?!
Back to work! My Monday wasn't too bad. No "huge" surprises. One of our 2nd grade teachers is on maternity leave for the rest of the year and our "long term" sub is a former teacher from our school! That was awesome news! Love this guy...he's a hoot!
Mini me had a dr's appt so left early. After appt we ran over to the local Wally World to pick up veggie & other odds n ends. And of course one of the "main" things I went for I forgot! Had to go back inside, lol. Made it home where I had some chicken marinating. Yes, baby actually cooked! Garlic/herb chicken & sweet corn in butter sauce. Not too bad. (ok, so I had to text a friend or two asking time/temp cuz I DON'T cook) We did have coke floats for "dessert" too! 
Hope your Monday was marvelous! Hugs and sweet baby kisses
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