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a thought Men and masturbation. The one thing I haven't understood so far about being on here for a week now is men and masturbation. Why do men think hearing about someone stroking is supposed to be a turn on for a woman? If we can't see it what's the point? No cam, no fun. Also why are men so weak, how come they never have any ability to give a person what they really want. Everyone on here is alone sexually and all they do is ask what someone else might want. No wonder everyone is alone, they are so busy trying to figure out what might make someone else pleased in bed that they never figure out what they might want in bed themselves. Just my thought for today. |
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I have always found that if I give others what they want and please them that they are more likely to do the same for me.
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i think the reason why the men ask us what women want is that, so we know what we want...and again, it's a good conversation starter on the site like this...and it is lot easier for men to give what the women want... it's not so much of men that can't not give... from my experiences, i have men who can exactly give me what i want... but i really want to emphasize...if you wanna have good sex, good communication between the partner is important... otherwise, we all must assume what the partner want, and sometime, that is not what we want and disappoint us...so... as far as the men and masturbation goes...men are more sexual than women, and that's pretty much just about all they think of...it's pretty normal to masturbate every other day...fuck i think some do every day... i personally want to hear them stroking them as they think of me, but again...that's just me...not all the people feel the same way...obviously that is not your case...so i understand...
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Hmmmmm good observation
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I have to commend you on acquiring 242 friends in just 14 days of being on this site.
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Its naive to assume anyone, man, woman, boy or girl understands what their partner wants, expects and desires "in the moment" without good communication. The lack thereof is probably the biggest cause of failures in every type of relationship. Discount any suggestion that women don't play alone just as much as men. This site has enough validation that women can be just as sexual. Read enough of the female blogs and you'll find an equality that can not be denied. A better thought may be, why should women play, discover and communicate? Assuming they have the patience, skills and attention to details to communicate their most intimate desires. Its the difference between intimacy and getting fucked. Any 18 year old can fuck. Just mount pound and get off. Intimacy and sensuality takes time, patience, knowledge and skills. ©
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Men and masturbation. .... Women and masturbation , too... .everyone does it, even nuns and priests.... only nobody talks openly about it in open society. The one thing I haven't understood so far about being on here for a week now is men and masturbation. ... Nothing really for you to understand about that. You could talks to your dad, or brothers [if you have any]. Why do men think hearing about someone stroking is supposed to be a turn on for a woman?.... Maybe some woman told him she gets excited hearing about it, and so the poor loser thinks he should do this with any woman. If we can't see it what's the point?... Exactly. The loser may as well be talking to his shadow. Also why are men so weak, .... "Weak" in what way? how come they never have any ability to give a person what they really want. .... Because , usually , what she wants is not important to him, especially if she's just acting like or being a cum depository for him. Men are generally not on this kind of site to find long term companionship.... this is more of a squirt and walk site. Everyone on here is alone sexually.... Not necessarily. and all they do is ask what someone else might want...... I don't know why they would ask that. they are so busy trying to figure out what might make someone else pleased in bed that they never figure out what they might want in bed themselves. ....Those guys who ask women what they want, are usually inexperienced or very shy...... what he should really do? Get into action, go after what he wants , and let her be concerned on getting what she wants. ... This isn't kindergarten sharing time. Next guy who asks you what you want... tell him to shut up, man up , and go for it.
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Someone that doesn't know what someone else wants, you find out by asking.... Actually, what they want, is not your concern. You just need to go for what you want... and so will she. Women aren't here to grab the first dick shoved in their face, .... Sure they are, if she likes the dick. so guys need to put a bit of effort into it..... What for? You meet , you have sex... no need to put on a production. And by finding out what women want, that might just give them an advantage..... Don't worry about what she wants.... she'll get around to it.... all you need to do is enjoy yourself. Guys don't really need to say what they want unless it's more than wham, bam, thank you ma'am. .... And it's rarely more than that. Also why would women need to say what she wants, since the encounter is mostly just for a wham bam. Let the woman be concerned with her own needs. Now, if a guy wants to get it AGAIN, it's best if he puts a little more effort into it. .... Not at her age. Any guy under the age of 25, needs to practice the , "Hit it and quit it" routine......NOT stick around for seconds and thirds.... He should be avoiding commitment to one, and play the field for as long as he can. Try to get her off, rather than get himself off? ....What for?! Don't you think she would trying to get herself off? .... Let the woman you're with worry about what it takes.....you should only be minding your own getting-off.
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