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2/10/2019 3:49 am |
It all comes down to why you are here. I am here for purpose of meeting a new friend. If that new friend places a profile with rampant sexuality that is just as okay with me as if she advertised as a gray figure. Its about the interaction once there is a connection. As adults if you determine that you would just like to have fun and that's it, then make the best if it. If you both want more, then pursue that avenue. So again for me it's about finding friends that are on the same page as I am regardless of the PornoKut unwritten rules of engagement which includes pictures and videos leaving nothing to the imagination. Communication is the key
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2/10/2019 4:25 am |
fuck this double standard shit and understand the words... it just sound like a different version of "it's not you it's me" song just because a man does not have the balls to say it was great but we are on different roads... does not make his weakness a double standard now if you are getting naked for a man he is getting naked for you...therefore in damming you for your weakness he just dams himself ifin he fears what the world will think of you... he must fear what the world thinks of him i once asked a friend "how would you describe a whore" he quickly replied " a woman that will fuck everyone but me" in reality there is more double talk than double standards bonne chance there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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I voted the last option, as it is close, but not totally complete. I think PART of the issue is this place is huge and functions as both a sex/hook-up site, AND a more conventional dating site. Obviously, the two groups are going to have differing standards of conduct. Speaking for myself - clearly in the hooking-up/adventuring realm, I absolutely do not judge ladies for this behavior, and frankly rather enjoy hearing their stories, and even in some cases joining them in multi-person adventures of various types. So Being a ManWhore is not a New Thing Then What is Sex Winter Wear, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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They send me their silly vagina pics all the time. Begging me to fuck them. Treating me like I'm some sort of fuck machine. They don't even bother saying 'Hello', anymore. My signature has a link to my thoughts on the topic It's tiresome to be treated like a warm vibrator... 😔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Just like two more have said you needed to add another option "Men-do you still respect and trust the women you met here?" …………………... No vote from me, as none fit...…………………………….. And yes there can(are) be a double standards here, on many levels, just have to sift through and find the one that fits your lifestyle Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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I don't think there is a double standard here, it's up to everyone to speak up and let the person they're interested how they feel.
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Here's the situation as I've experienced it, and I understand the dynamics from both perspectives: I've met and dated women on PornoKut. In all three instances, both I and the women I were seeing kept our profiles up. In one case, the woman I was seeing was very forthright and let me know up front she was meeting and fucking other men. She gave me an out, saying she would understand if I wanted an exclusive relationship and decided to leave the relationship. I did not do that, but insisted that we both use protection with other lovers. The idea of her with other men actually turned me on, and eventually I joined her and another partner for a MMF threesome, which was new ground for me at the time. At all times I respected her and him as individuals, and when we parted ways sexually we still all remained friends. In another case, A woman I met here on PornoKut asked for a monogamous relationship after several months of casual dating and I agreed. But I did not take my site down and continued to blog. This bothered my partner and eventually made her jealous. I would have been willing to sacrifice this social media outlet and close down my page, but other trust issues eventually arose, including a constant paranoia that I was cheating on her. Late one night, she broke into my home expecting to catch me red-handed with another woman. Instead, she woke up my brother and his family who were spending the weekend with me. Everything was over after that. My third example may be the most provocative. A blogger and I started fucking and writing about it. After a great weekend of sex, I posted my version, she posted hers and everyone read the two versions and commented profusely. After a few weeks of this experiment, it felt like I was living in a fish bowl. Also, her subjective reality began to stray quite radically from my mostly objective reporting, opening windows deep into her soul and radically coloring events with her past experience and present interpretations. While the sex was intense, deep, heavy and incredibly gratifying, I eventually stopped sharing my side of the story. Her blog became more like fiction to me, embellished with her interior monologue and odd perspective on things. One day, after sex, she told me that she was bisexual and that she had met a woman and would soon be engaging in a mutual sex blog with her, and that our sexual relationship was over. Not surprisingly, the friendship ended abruptly too. No hard feelings though. I deleted my old profile a few years ago, and now I regret it because a lot of those blogs were really close and personal to me. I wish I had kept them for posterity's sake.
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Nosos68 wrote: +1 "Missing one response from your vote choices: Men-do you still respect and trust the women you met here?" Good point! I might have checked that box.
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I'm here seeking long term relationships, which come in all forms, and all start with the most important "f" word, friendship. Also, I enjoy blogging and sharing my world, my stories. And, to feed the exhibitionist in me. The site is really what you make of it. With that being said, my experience is that most men just want to have erotic conversation and cam. Some want to actually meet to fuck. Of course, they don't tell you that … you should know since you are on an adult website. Or, they lead you on, that they want more than just sex … then say it's your fault for believing them. Honesty is a lost art. Common sense goes a long way and some should really start practicing that concept … In Luv, Lite, Laffter ...
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Had to vote that I did lose respect for one woman I met through here but not because she was on here, had naked pics, had met others from here prior to me or even that she was still 'active' on the site (my profile was still up as well). It was that she ended up sleeping with someone else while her and I were a couple without really discussing it being an open deal. I also don't think I was misreading the situation as a couple of time she asked me if I was still looking or seeing anyone else, not in an accusatory manner more like she was wondering,were we stood. When I told her no she said she wasn't looking either. That said, I've met a couple others from here and while none of them have become long term, it's not been for jealousy or a concern that she was looking for an 'upgrade' over me.
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2/12/2019 3:11 pm |
My wife says I am the biggest male slut she every met and that why she married me, according to her. My wife was perviously married to a nice man doctor and had two kids with him but the dude was as dull as dishwater, again, according to her. My wife let's me blog but not meet other women on this site or anywhere either. I stray because of my slut problem and when I do she erases my blog to punish me. So if my blog disappears you will know I have by a slutty bad boy! Become an Apollorising58 watcher!
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It seems there are some of both sexes that are disrespectful of each other after they have taken what they want but you only usually find out at the end.
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I haven't been seriously looking for years - but have NEVER come across this attitude from men. Neither of your answers were appropriate for me. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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