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From my teenage years and from a purely physical point of view, I always found older women much more attractive. And I was lucky enough to have an affair with a woman 10 years my senior that lasted about 20 years although we lived on different continents and only had physical contact every couple of years. At my age however, the law of averages alone will dictate that most of the women I meet are going to be younger. And in this day and age any form of discrimination is not socially acceptable not just in terms of age but nationality, race, religion or other pigeonhole (notice I didn't mention political correctness which is a totally different matter). However having said that, I seem to have a strong tendency to treat anyone younger than my daughter as a daughter and I do have a few female friends in that category. And that is going to mean that by the time I approach my 80th birthday, anyone woman under 50 is going to be physically off limits. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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 are 10-30 years younger than me. The deciding factor, no matter the age is maturity and being able to articulate goals. The inference that it is "money oriented" is silly in my experience. Someday folks will just mature and drop the double standards.
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I always see younger (20 yrs) ..love the attention and sex. She broke your throne, she cut your hair, and from your lips she drew the Halleluljah. -Cohen
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Younger I would have said ten to fifteen years and maybe twenty in my twenties, but now I think five is a good average, not written in stone depending on the woman, but I have lost two wives and to be honest I would prefer not to be made a widower again. Women handle it much better than men do. And you know how hard it was for you so you can imagine some one handling it even worse. All my wives were at least five years older. Most women I went out with were older (I skipped a year in school and went to private school at five so everyone around me was always one of two years older though it didn't really matter because of my size). The summer after I graduated I had an affair with my English teacher who was divorced and lived across the street. She looked like Mary Tyler Moore circa Dick Van Dyke with long gorgeous legs. Turns out she intended all those erections I got under my desk flashing those legs and a whisper of panty . I wondered four years why she put me in the front row exactly where I could see her legs and anything else and no one else could. To her credit she never made a move until after I graduated and was over at her house helping her box up and move her husbands things out. It only lasted one summer, but we were both exhausted by then anyway. I've gone with younger and older, and I don't see a problem. I think younger men and older women and older men and younger women is a natural thing so long as it doesn't get ridiculous. Cary Grant. Fred Astaire, Jimmy Durante, and Tony Randall all married women in their twenties in their seventies and three of them had children by them. Of course they were wealthy celebrities. My cousin who is pushing fifty lived with an older man from her mid thirties. I grant the man is an old rogue and the woman is a delusional dupe or predator in others eyes (I hate the term cougar --- very few women are that predatory about it). But if you are happy and it is real then screw society. The norms are set by miserable people who are afraid of life.  Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated. 
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I guess it goes back to ancient times when "old" men would marry real young women.
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I always see younger (20 yrs) ..love the attention and sex.  Thoughts from the Garden...
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So you want to know if it's o k to do people in their 20 's? Why not?Why would you even consider someone your age?That seems so ridiculous? Young is where the non stop sex is,all their friends would be very accepting of you and your attention.I say go for it and don't look back! Using more than all the road!
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when we are young,age seems a huge issue. now,finding someone who appreciates you and vice versa is difficult enough,without allowing age,older or younger,to be a restricting issue
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There will always be double standards for any situation at all times, it's just human nature...unfortunately. As far as age goes, I constantly say it..."You're only as old as you want to be"...I've seen older people act young and younger people act old  If a person is attracted to someone and the feeling is mutual, isn't that what matters?  All the women I have been with have been older than me...nothing by choice, it's just how it happened. Either way, as long as you're both happy then who cares about any substantial age difference  BTW....I always thought "cougar" was a good term for an older woman...I never did mind being the prey of a cougar  Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!! 
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I don't think Age is a big factor as long as the time you have together is enjoyable, however, I think both he and her will experience a lack of understanding with each other at times, because both did not grow up within the same era, or generation, A experience of one may not be understood by the other when that experience has deep meaning to that one, ( generally speaking of course ). As far as getting together for some highly erotic sex with someone much younger or older is, well, highly erotic and exciting. . Happy mothers day, pretty lady.
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No age limit as long as she keeps herself fit. Nothing like a hot older woman with a sweeet sexy body!!!
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depends on the woman....does she act "old"....is she in good health.....is she fun! I think it's there mental attitude that drives me....I met woman who were chronologically younger but mentally acted like a "Old" person!!! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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Go pick on someone else and keep your sexist comments to yourself. Haven't you tried to start enough crap on this site?
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I think redrockrascal said it best. Age doesn't matter nearly as much as where you are in life. It's much better to be going through life with someone in the same place as you...trust me, I know this from experience. It's part of the reason I won't date anyone too much younger or too much older than me.
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age matters only in that I don't wan t to rob the cradle...however at 51 I have to be realistic, while younger than 30 most woman are very attractive they can't relate to someone 20 years older ... my problem is most woman my age can't keep up with me physically... no one said finding a match would be easy... keep plugging along though... love a woman my age if I could find the right one... I guess for me it's around 35 to 51
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This world is full of racism, sexism, I never let it bother me. I like women my age, but for the last year, and a half I seem to be attracting women in their twenties, and it's all good. When I was young , older women were not off limits to me, so I don't see why it shouldn't be the same, either way.
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Had to pick other. I have dated at least 20 years my elder and as low as 10 years. And this is what I found, older is better for me, in some cases not because of the BS about experience, since I had way more then some, but the mature level these women have. They see the world around them differently then you're younger counter parts. As long as two people are happy, I don't care. Age IS JUST a NUMBER! Newest Poem: What Lies Beneath Newest HNW Post: Latest Story: Sleep Fuck is cumming... Virtual Symposium XXXVIII Think Spring by SC Twisted
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Most of the men I have had sex with have been younger than me....the only exception I can think of is my first husband who was 7 years older. My age limit would be around the age of my own children....the eldest now being 47. ~~Anais Nin~~
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Yes that double standard exist, after divorce, my lover was 13 years younger and it lasted 5 years. Legal age is a given, and older then my children, if chemistry-connection is there why not. Keeping options open lol
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At the risk of sounding a bit crude older women need fucking also ! Now all BS aside when I was in my early twenties I had no issue with fucking women in their mid to late 30's . To be totally honest I found it more fun as they knew what the deal was and you didn't have to put up with all the Princess bullshit of the younger female of the time . Now that I'm in my mid 50's 10-15 years older isn't an issue still and now 10-15 years younger isn't an issue
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5/10/2015 7:20 pm |
Age should have no bearing on people being together. My current partner is 8 years older than myself, and we have been together for over 25 years. We have never had a problem with our ages, and none of our families has cared about it either.
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Age is just a number. I had a fwb from this site for 6 months, she was 46 at the time and I was 29. It was fun 
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Im a mother of a 24yo, my tolerance to young guys/guys crap is well over. I find I tend to get on with people around my age. I can live without sex, it's not important in my life and never will be. I need genuine friends, family and health. Without friends, you have no one to laugh with, without family you are alone, without health you are dying.
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You just never know. ~  ~
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5/11/2015 5:38 pm |
I for one enjoy playing with any woman old enough to endulge and willing to play. I dated a 70 year old lady when I was in my 40's and had a lot of fun and really hot sex.
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Who's doing the frowning upon either of these scenarios??? I have my own views on who but..... I have enjoyed relationships with older and younger ladies.... Its the person, not the age that is important.... Other people tend to frown out of jealousy or some other petty reason... Yes there is always the risk of either of the older persons taking advantage of naivety but who is to know? Mark xxx
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For me it's all about attitude and confidence and personality. If there is chemistry there is going to be sex...
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Double standards dont mean anything to you and the guy. Society makes these harsh, meaningless double standards. It doesnt mean you have to carry on the practice. Most of my female interests tend to be 10-15 yrs older. Are they cougars to me? No. They are attractive, women. period. ~Linc was here.~
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I have always found that older women are the best lovers. Now that I am older I still love the older ladies, They seem to know what they want and dont beat around the bush.
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I had always dated guys that was older then me. Til I meet my ex he was younger. But now I say to each their own. I feel as long as they are not younger then my oldest then I good tyo go.
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Times have changed, to me Age is just a number. Guys want to date younger women, I'm okay with that. I'm okay with dating older women. I think its normal and okay for women to have the freedom to date older or younger men if the so choose. No stereo type here with me.
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The real reason... Typically: Women = More attractive when younger, prime years to have children typically younger Men = More stable and more money when older and further along in their career. Prime years to support children, typically a little older.
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I think ot depends on the man and woman. Age is only a number.
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When a man goes to a strip club he is "preying on a woman's need for money and the female stripper is the victim" when a woman goes to a strip club the stripper is "preying on her need of attention and taking her money and again SHE is the victim" There will always be a "double standard" because newsflash MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT EQUAL. It's an amazing coincidence how many fat bald guys who have a sexy woman in their live and it's just a coincidence that those guys have money. Riiiight.
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yeah, it's reality. unlike most men here Im not trying to impress, just being honest. Tthere is a double standard because men and women are not the same. Im just amazed at how difficult it is for some folks to be honest. Ii will never fall to the pc bullshit of this world.
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Aah yes the tried and true "women with lots of men are sluts and men with lots of women are studs" You want the REAL TRUE answer once and for all? It takes no effort. a fat ugly woman can be a slut, some guy wil be hard up enough tol sleep with her, a man can only get a woman if he is attracrtive enough and / or has money. Now if you can't admit that then we have nothing more to discuss.
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I would gladly get involved 10 years younger them I am. I would even as far as 17 years younger then me as long as they know how to treat a lady and they are mature LadyTeddieBear
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Age is not the limit, unless of course you are to young. I am not a perv but older or younger is just a number, who I find attractive is not a number it is a person. Age should not be a barrier for relationships
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a man is controlled by his dick. so he doesnt care about the age of a woman.
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where on earth would we be without those old double standards (for men) god bless em, saved my bacon quite a few times lol BOOMSHENKA may the seed of your loin be fruitfull in the belly of your woman.(neil - the young ones)
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Love older ladies, but at my age getting harder to find ones older than me that still want to play...lol
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There is definitely a double standard. I'm a cougar and I like them young as long as they are of legal age. [3630559]
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